PAYING OLD DEBT

A BEAUTIFUL LOVE STORY AND SOME INSIGHTS ON SOUL FRAGMENTATION FROM A PAST-LIFE REGRESSION SESSION

She was 24 and had never been in a relationship. He had already been through a failed marriage and had a child. They met through work and quickly grew fond of each other, as they had many commonalities in both thoughts and personality. He wanted to settle down with her soon, but she wasn’t ready to get married yet. Above all, she was worried about her parents, who loved her deeply, and she knew they would have a hard time accepting him.

She came to me with a few questions regarding her health and two specific concerns:

• How can her parents accept their relationship?

• She had visited fortune tellers several times, and they all said that she had a spirit following her—an ancestor who never had the chance to be born as a human. However, her parents strongly denied this.

A LOVE STORY

She was on a meadow, radiant, graceful, and gentle. There was a large tree, and a handsome young man in a red and white outfit was playing with a young girl. They were siblings. She felt peaceful and content seeing them. Beneath the tree, she and he had always been together. He was someone she loved deeply.

She went to a wooden house not far away. In her present life, she cried bitterly, feeling a profound sense of regret, although she didn’t understand why she felt that way.

She sat in a luxurious carriage, next to a man in a black suit, with a square face. She (in her present life) cried desperately. “Sister, I don’t like looking at him. I don’t want to look at him. He says he loves me, but that’s not true. He just likes me and wants to possess me.”

“Oh, sister, on my wedding day. I married the man in the black suit. It was a very luxurious wedding. My parents were very happy. Everyone praised us and said we were a perfect match. He was happy too. But I wasn’t. I didn’t love him.”

It turned out that her husband seemed to have used his power to force her into marriage, or perhaps the man she loved found it too difficult to convince her parents, so he left with his younger sister to another region. That’s why, when she arrived at the wooden house of the two siblings and found it empty, she cried in regret and loneliness.

Her husband loved and pampered her, but she was indifferent. Over time, he realized her coldness and began to be indifferent as well, seeking relationships outside of their marriage.

Two years after the wedding, while walking down the street, she suddenly encountered him. He had left far away, but still had someone keep an eye on her family, so he knew how she was doing. They returned to the familiar tree on the meadow and watched the sunset together. They stayed in silence beside each other. As the sun set, they both knew they had missed something, something they could never get back.

After that evening, she went home, and by some twist of fate, she became pregnant—a small new joy with her husband. However, her husband, somehow knowing she had been in contact with her old lover, believed she had deceived him. He used very degrading words and pointed his finger at her face, making her feel deeply insulted. He even slapped her hard, causing her to fall and miscarry. She was devastated by the loss of the child and the insult. She longed for her old lover, but her sense of dignity and moral values prevented her from doing anything wrong. She hated her husband. From then on, she lived alone in the dark world of her own grief.

In her old age, she passed away in solitude, with no one by her side, and no one knew she had died. She (in her present life) sobbed. Her husband, from afar, received the news and returned. After leaving her physical body and looking back at the events, she realized that her husband had also suffered and, in the end, truly loved her, even though in the beginning, he only liked her and wanted to possess her as a beautiful, reputable woman.

 

LIFE LESSONS

• In life, she experienced loneliness. She had to learn to love herself, and instead of loving her parents to the point of accepting their arrangements, she needed the courage to protect her own love.

• She also needed to look within herself, because although she was gentle and polite with the man she loved, she was argumentative and “moody” with her husband—the one she didn’t love ^^. She regretted that things didn’t work out with her old love, but she didn’t live in the present to realize that her husband cared for and looked after her.

• The man she loved, upon reflection, had never really fought for their love. He loved in silence and then left, rather than trying to find a way to make it work.

SURPRISES

• Both the husband and the ex-lover have returned in her current life. Her ex-lover, now a colleague, has feelings for her but has never dared to express them. The husband, the one she “doesn’t want to see,” turns out to be her current lover. He came to repay an old debt of affection and to bring his child from his previous marriage—he brought the child to make up for the child that was never born in her past life.

• As for the “spirit” that has always followed her (as the fortune teller claimed), I thought it might be the baby she lost in that life, but the answer surprised me. She said the “spirit” was the loneliness of the wife from that past life, still clinging to her, wanting her to remain lonely. Perhaps this is why, at 24, she had never been in a romantic relationship.

Of course, we took steps to clear up these issues for her.

COMING BACK TO THE PRESENT

I shared a few thoughts with her from my perspective:

• It’s entirely possible to meet soulmates from past lives, so never think that in this life you can only love one person or that only one person will love you. With each person, we have different experiences of loving and being loved, even if they come with failure and pain; they are all part of the experience.

• Only marry when you are truly ready. Marriage is just the beginning of a new journey. Don’t marry just for the “end goal” of marriage, but love for the sake of a deep, lasting relationship. Learn the skills and transform yourself to build that relationship because no one becomes a perfect partner just because of a wedding.

• When you are truly happy, the people who love you sincerely will be happy for you and will support you.

Thank you for sharing such a real story, and I wish you strength on your journey ahead.

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