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EMBRACE IT ALL
The meaning of a Quantum Healing session is ultimately to help you realize that you have absolute freedom in choosing how to react to everything that happens to you. Life is about choosing your experiences.
A girl came to me asking how to change her mother, who had a severe alcohol addiction. She would drink constantly, and then start picking fights around the house. No matter how much her family tried to hide the alcohol, she always managed to find it.
She was led into another life, where her current mother was once the daughter of a noble family. However, she fell in love with an older, married official, and after the affair, she was cast out of the family and lived a life of wandering. This mother gave birth to a son (the girl), nurturing and loving him with all her heart, patiently waiting for many years until the child returned, having completed their education. The love this mother had for her child was immense.
In another scene, from a high vantage point, she saw herself as a deep pit of water in the middle of a forest, the water cold and pulling everything into the pit. She received a message: “Accept everything as the pit of water, don’t reject anything, not even the trees and grass. In this life, if anything happens, just accept everything, whether good or bad.”
There are many individuals who, in a state of confusion, have contacted me, asking for hypnosis to change their parents, their spouses, or their children, hoping to make them let go of certain behaviors. It’s quite ironic when we encounter something unpleasant; depending on who the source is, we react differently. For example, if something happens due to “heaven’s will,” we grudgingly accept it because we can’t change the heavens; if it’s caused by strangers, we might get angry but soon forget because they have no real connection to us; when it’s with someone over whom we have “power”—like our children or subordinates—we impose our will, suppressing them as we wish; but when it’s with someone more powerful than us, we feel frustrated because we can’t do anything to change them.
Moreover, some relationships can be cut off for peace of mind, but others, such as family bonds, are incredibly hard to sever. Everything feels like a vicious cycle, where the one causing the discomfort and the one experiencing it simply switch roles in different situations.
Let’s pause that cycle and ask ourselves, “Why not change our own mindset so that no matter what happens, it aligns with our own wishes, and we don’t feel upset anymore?”
The common answer to such questions about wanting to change others is: “If you don’t let go, how can you ask others to let go? If you don’t change, how can you expect others to change?”
But don’t misunderstand the meaning of “letting go” here. It doesn’t mean severing relationships physically or tolerating everything with the mindset of “enduring in this life so you can be free in the next.” Letting go here refers to releasing the mental attachment, no longer feeling discomfort when things don’t go as expected, not tolerating out of resignation. Depending on the circumstances, you can interpret it as: Letting go – don’t think of yourself as too important, let others make mistakes, grow, and learn from them, because think about it: if I were to leave today, the Earth would still spin, children will still grow, and those who love me or hate me will still have enough food and clothes.
Or letting go – don’t think you owe anyone anything, because no one is holding a knife to anyone’s throat to force them to choose: “I can’t live without you, I can’t live without my child here,” because, though harsh, we all end up dying. As long as someone’s alive, I still have a chance; if they’re gone, I lose everything. The choice is theirs.
Letting go can also mean releasing the expectations about time – it’s a way to practice calmness and patience with ourselves, so we can have the calmness and patience to deal with others. Like a baby, it takes 9 months and 10 days to develop and be strong enough to be born.
Or letting go of the expectation that “things should be like how others have them,” and reflect on whether we possess the same qualities and abilities they do, and if we really need what they have, or if we just think we need it because someone else said so.
Or letting go of the definitions and concepts about ourselves and others, like “I am a traditional woman,” “The husband must be the breadwinner,” “Children must obey to be good,” “Marriage must have sex,” and then reflect on whether these values truly bring freedom to our thoughts and life.
There are many ways to LET GO, and when you let go of what needs to be released, you’ll feel lightness, freedom, and peace in your heart. If you think you’re letting go but still feel more confused, unable to find a way out, slow down, and look at the situation from different perspectives to figure out what truly needs to be let go.
When you let go correctly, you will be like that cool water pit, accepting everything completely, whether the water is clear or murky, whether it’s algae, weeds, or branches. Don’t be afraid that it’ll become a garbage pit because, when we settle down, the mud stays in the mud, the plants in the plants, and the water in the water. Then, we will filter out what we need and use it in the appropriate way.
When you’re confused by everything not going as planned, don’t make any decisions in a rush. Sit still and let everything settle first. Then, you can carefully deal with each thing one by one. You’ll see your life change because you’ve changed first.
I send this message to those who need it. I sincerely send love and peace to them. I hope that one day, after going through everything, they’ll realize that we are all born into this world with endless love and freedom. We experience life through our choices. How we choose to think determines how our lives will be.