Quantum Hypnosis to Understand Relationships and Heal Fear
The subject of the session is a very cautious woman. She wanted to meet with me before booking a hypnosis session to ask in detail about her concerns instead of just chatting via Facebook messages. Perhaps it was fate that led us to meet, as I had never met with a subject in person before a session.
You had an experience of possession by a spirit, and then had to chant prayers for a while until it stopped. You also had a strange experience while meditating. That day, you couldn’t meditate for a long time and were about to give up, thinking to just let things happen as they would. But in the last few moments, you saw images of pink clouds and heard your late grandmother’s voice saying, “Please forgive it.” “It” referred to your first love, who left a deep pain that you still can’t forget to this day. You also had a question about a current person who you feel both drawn to and love, yet also have an invisible fear preventing you from moving forward with them. These two conflicting emotions kept battling within you.
At the beginning of the session, you saw yourself standing in front of a red telephone booth, typical of England, likely around 1840-1850. There were men and women on the street, dressed in typical attire, passing by. Standing next to you was a man, who you didn’t know, with a beard, wearing a brown fedora and a brown plaid vest, also waiting to make a call. You were a woman holding an umbrella, wearing a tilted hat, a puffed-up skirt, gloves, with a round, fair face, in your early 30s. You seemed to be familiar with the man, but didn’t have any strong feelings for him.

Returning Home, the Girl is Cooking
The man is her husband. They have two children, a boy and a girl, around 5-7 years old. They live in a wooden house with a porch, a fireplace, and a chimney. Inside, there are many framed photos hanging on the walls, showing a typical middle-class family. Outside, there’s a garden with vegetables and flowers that the wife has planted. The husband seems to work in research, so he doesn’t take part in household chores, which are the wife’s responsibility. The husband focuses on his work to earn a living, while the wife takes care of the children. Each has their own responsibilities and takes care of the family. You feel drawn to a framed photo, which is of the husband. He has a beard, a high forehead, his hair is slicked to one side, educated, and seems to have a bit of social standing.
The husband falls ill, with a cough, and dies at around forty. The children are about 14-16 years old. He is lying in a coffin placed inside the house (you describe the house and the rooms, and everything is arranged very meticulously). The relatives around are saddened but not overly distressed. By this time, the family seems better off than before. The wife does not grieve but is thankful and cherishes the time they had together.
At this point, you begin to cry uncontrollably and say that when she held her husband’s hand and pressed it to her cheek, you understood that the wife was deeply saddened and felt the loss. No one around her is crying, as if they were mentally prepared. But the wife is crying. It turns out this family is very loving; the husband deeply loved his wife but was a person of work, responsible for his job, so he didn’t express his feelings outwardly. The husband is actually the person you care for in this life. The wife didn’t want him to leave.
In Old Age
When the children have grown up, the wife, now an old woman, is sitting in a rocking chair knitting. She does not feel afraid of facing death; instead, she feels happy because she is about to reunite with her husband. At the end of her life, she is buried next to her husband. She feels fulfilled with the love and the life they shared. This is around 1936.
At this moment, you cry because of the joy and emotion of being able to be with your husband, lying next to his grave. The reunion of the two souls is like the meeting of two lights, one a bright orange-red (the wife) and the other a dark purple-brown (the husband). There is a joyful, almost tearful feeling when they reunite. Then, the two lights begin to merge.
The Meaning of That Life
The meaning of that life is to love and be loved, inseparable, and to accompany each other through many lifetimes. You were shown that life because in this life, you do not want to marry anyone else, as you are waiting for that person. The happiness in that life was so great that you don’t believe you will be happy with anyone else. You were deeply moved when meeting that person because you have waited for them for so long.
At this moment, you realize that the image of the sun you first saw when entering the session represents the Source. Both souls were separated from the Source. A black dot separated from the Source, then split into two. They have met 77 lifetimes.

The Two Children
The son and daughter are one year apart. The son is resourceful but quite mischievous and stubborn, so the wife often scolds him; he is your first love in this life. The daughter is the one who introduced your current partner to you. You say that when the two children observed their parents’ love for each other, they knew that the mother’s wish was to meet the father again, so they vowed to come into this life to help their parents reunite.
Your grandmother in this life is actually your mother from that past life. She is very fond of the son because he was often punished by the mother. The son, in fact, is very affectionate, just like his father, but doesn’t know how to express his feelings. It is then that you remember the image of the telephone booth, which is where the husband and wife first met. He let you go in first and then introduced himself to you. He seemed like a scientist or a researcher of some sort. The message from your grandmother, “Please forgive it,” during meditation, was because your first love (the son) appeared in this life not to make you suffer but to fulfill your (the mother’s) wish of reuniting with the husband from that past life in this present life. He is very much like his father because he has strong willpower, which is one of the qualities the wife deeply loved about her husband. That’s why you feel a deep attachment to your first love. At this moment, you also recognize another acquaintance—a person who likes you a lot in this life, but you don’t have much affection for them. They are a neighbor who always admired your wife and pursued her after her husband’s death. They wanted to meet you once in this life but left with their own fate.
Message from the Higher Self
During the hypnosis session, you received a message from your Higher Self that they are ONE, there is no fear, only emptiness left. “No matter who you love, you will return eventually.” But you still feel fear—the fear of coming together only to separate again.
Reflection on the Experience
I realize that this is one of the few cases where the Higher Self or spiritual guides refuse to “heal” because it is something the subject must experience and overcome on their own. Everything is impermanent; the duration of a relationship is uncertain, but if you don’t give each other a chance, nothing will begin. I wish you blessings and hope you can soon overcome this fear.
I don’t often write about romantic love, soulmate relationships, or twin souls. I don’t glorify or sanctify those connections because I believe all relationships are spiritual, as their interactions, whether through suffering or happiness, require us to look within ourselves to recognize something. Let’s not deceive ourselves by thinking we only have one soulmate throughout lifetimes and get lost in romantic fantasies… because simply, we only ask about those we have met, not those we haven’t. Choose the life experiences you want, the people with the qualities you want to become, and the universe will naturally bring you to the people you need to meet.
Check out another article about twin souls here.