LOVE STORY OF THE CONFUSED WRITER

Past life regression hypnosis helps one understand relationships and learn valuable lessons for their current life. By focusing on the message, rather than getting attached to who you were or whether the story is true, I believe you will recognize the value of this method.

The cheerful young woman came to me. “Why do I love so much, but in the end, they all end up with a third party? I often fall for men a few years younger than me, sometimes even more, because they are so pure. I feel like older men have to wear a mask, as if they are always pretending, and that exhausts me. Being with younger men is so much easier; they are natural, not shy, although I understand they can be unsure and their emotions are often unstable. But why does everything always end with a third party? The first time, I was so angry and destroyed everything, but gradually I accepted it and no longer hate them. I just don’t understand why this always happens and how I can have a quality relationship.”

LIFE OF A SOLDIER AWAY FROM HOME

• Let’s go back to the day you were born.

• You were being baptized… by someone who looked like an angel, young, surrounded by your parents and many people who were very happy.

• What did the angel-like figure look like?

• They wore a blue and white gown, had a Western face, and radiated light.

• How did your parents feel?

• They were very happy.

• How did you feel?

• Very happy to be born.

• How did you grow up?

• I grew up as an active and mischievous boy.

• What did you look like?

• I had a fit and healthy physique with light brown hair. I joined a royal army and really enjoyed the job.

• What was your job?

• I was a protector of the king.

• What happened?

• I had a beautiful girlfriend, a palace maid. Something happened, but I didn’t know what. I was happy, but she seemed very sad.

• Why was she sad?

• She felt uncertain about our love and feared I might die while working.

• How did the boy feel?

• He was optimistic, believing he would survive and marry her. He loved her deeply.

• What happened next?

• After he left for work, the girl went to meet someone else… It seemed she betrayed him and got involved with someone of higher rank.

• Did he know about it?

• He didn’t know at the time… Until one day he received a message saying she was with another man. He went and killed the man.

• How did he feel?

• After killing the man, he felt immense pain, regret for killing someone over an undeserving cause.

• Did he do anything to the girl?

• He loved and hated her at the same time. He ended his life by cutting his own throat. He didn’t harm her. He felt he couldn’t continue living but still loved her and had no intention of seeking revenge. He deeply regretted killing the other man.

• What happened to his soul?

• His soul was taken by angels and brought to a higher God. The God comforted him. He cried in repentance for killing the man, and God reassured him, telling him he had a pure heart.

• What was the meaning of that life?

• It was about acceptance and forgiveness.

A SMALL FAMILY, A GREAT HAPPINESS

• I see myself in a small house in a rural area. Around the house, there are many flowers and various plants. There are chickens nearby. I have a husband… who is very lively, a bit childish, but very warm and always loves the family. He seems to be… a writer… and loves to write about mythical stories and fairy tales. I also have a son. I am a homemaker. My hobbies are gardening and sewing. My family is very happy, always filled with laughter. Life is very simple, and we are friendly with the neighbors. It’s a very peaceful and beautiful rural area.

• Look at the husband, what does the girl love about him?

• Because he is very lovable… very innocent… forgiving, with a very pure heart. He loves everyone, always likes to help others, and he is very talented but never arrogant about his abilities.

• And what about the girl?

• She is a very gentle and deep woman, always listening to others and offering helpful advice. She is a very wise woman.

• Is she like you?

• Yes, she is.

• And what about the boy? Does what she loves about him resemble what you love about your husband?

• Yes… but also, not entirely… not completely.

MESSAGE FROM THE TRUE SELF/SUPERCONSCIOUS

• How can one have a good romantic relationship?

• By loving and cherishing yourself more. Don’t rush to label your emotions.

SIDELINE CONVERSATION

The girl is someone who loves books and art. When she woke up, she laughed. The writer is quite childish; she described him as “a bit goofy”; but the wife is very understanding and compassionate, so she didn’t mind these things and loved him very much. Upon closer inspection, what she truly loves is his pure soul. However, in reality, she was attracted to the superficial aspects like his youthful, cool appearance and natural way of communicating, which gave her a sense of innocence. She may have dismissed other potential relationships immediately if the person seemed to be pretentious and less natural, rather than giving them a chance to show their inner self.

Many girls have told me that they are tired of dating. Every conversation starts the same way: “What’s your name? Where do you live? What do you do?” When a girl meets many guys, and every conversation starts like this, it becomes so boring… And when a guy meets many girls, unsure of how to start, they fall back on the same conversations. I believe they also find it boring ^^.

I no longer believe in tricks to win over men or women… Just be yourself… listen to your emotions… and if you continue to do things the same way, your opportunities will come in the same way, and the results won’t change. Be confident in being yourself, and from there, choose to react and act differently. Don’t rush to label or define someone’s actions (e.g., what this action means about someone), and you will have more opportunities to see their true self. When you are yourself, love yourself from the inside, feel complete, and don’t rush to cling to anything outside… you will attract people like you.

I wish the girl finds the “writer” of her life soon. Luckily, in this life, she has graduated from the lesson of the soldier, hehe ^^.