REIKI SESSIONS WORK FOR RELATIONSHIP HEALING

Romantic relationships are a common and significant topic in the healing profession. In my practice with quantum hypnosis, I often encounter clients (mostly women) who come with a specific question: “What were my partner and I in a past life? I need to know so I can decide whether to stay in this relationship or leave.”

While I enjoy reading about past-life connections, particularly the romantic ones, I believe this approach misses the core issue. We have all lived countless lives in various forms and places, both on and off Earth, so we’re bound to have crossed paths before. We’ve continuously swapped roles, becoming strangers, family members, parents, siblings, spouses, or friends.

In those past lives, we may have shared joyful or tumultuous experiences, but each person still had their own lessons to learn, along with universal lessons like unconditional love and non-attachment. The same holds true in this life. A harmonious past-life relationship doesn’t guarantee a smooth current one, nor does it mean each person won’t have their inner fears triggered. Similarly, a difficult past-life relationship simply reflects that there was a lack of love in that life; it doesn’t mean the couple is doomed in the present.

 

I always advise clients to take a practical approach rooted in their current life. For example: “What can I change about myself to improve this relationship?” or “What about my partner have I not yet seen clearly, so I can better understand and support them, or understand that I’ve done all I can and it’s time to let go?”

By adopting this perspective, any healing modality—be it a hypnosis session or a Tarot/Oracle reading—can be truly effective. The opposite, however, is also true: if a client approaches healing with the same mindset that got them stuck in the first place, they will remain stuck. Hypnosis is incredibly effective when the client is open and receptive, but if they come with a “I want to find out about this, but it has to be my way” mindset—often stemming from a deep-seated victim mentality—they will only prolong their own struggle. This is why I have become more selective with my hypnosis clients, to avoid wasting both their time and mine.

 

As I’ve explained in previous posts, Siam Reiki offers a safer approach because it reveals issues in the here and now, which prevents the client’s mind from being pulled too far into the past. While past-life issues can arise during a session, they are far less common than issues in the current life. It’s much easier to blame what you can’t see than to take responsibility for your own life. It’s also easier to blame others than to take responsibility for yourself. However, some people go too far in the other direction, taking on too much responsibility to the point of not recognizing healthy boundaries. Fortunately, a person’s energy provides clear information about their issues and how they are out of balance. This balance is unique to each individual; there is no one-size-fits-all solution.

Here is a specific case where Siam Reiki, combined with intuitive and energy-based counseling, helped a couple. Both clients were remote, so these were distance healing sessions.

A female client contacted me for a hypnosis session about her relationship with her husband. She felt stuck and desperately wanted a divorce. Specifically, ever since she quit her job to start her own business, her husband had been constantly worried about her potential losses, and his anxiety was making her negative. After several years, she felt he was stifling her growth. She worried about how a divorce would affect her children, but continuing to live together felt like she was regressing.

A preliminary energy check of her photo showed severe blockages across several chakras, so I suggested a Siam Reiki session. The results were surprising. From her perceived position as the “victim,” her energy revealed she was actually the “perpetrator.” She was extremely demanding and had a “brutally frank” way of speaking, especially toward her husband. She was also highly controlling, wanting everything to be her way. This was so extreme that, to be honest, she was lucky to have found a man who was willing to marry her and maintain a stable family life. It’s rare for a man to yield to a woman with these traits for the sake of peace. Without going into further detail, the result was that she felt much better after the session and decided to book sessions for both her husband and her child.

The session for the husband was also fascinating. His energy and blockages showed he was a true family man: he worried about his parents, constantly thought about how to be a better father, and craved more love from his wife. It was clear that if she were to divorce him, she would be hard-pressed to find another man so dedicated to his family and willing to accommodate her. The session also revealed that he had many fears of loss, which were negatively affecting his wife.

Most notably, he was the client for a Reiki session where an entire council of his ancestors appeared to “vouch” for him. It’s not uncommon for one or two deceased family members to show up in a Reiki session. Sometimes they have already passed on and appear to offer encouragement; other times they have not passed on and have a connection to the client. In his case, an entire lineage of ancestors, spanning generations, appeared together. They had all passed on, and their demeanor was dignified and wise, showing they were “noteworthy”—perhaps not in terms of social status, but they were the kind of people who accomplished extraordinary things. Their presence, combined with a blockage in his root chakra (representing disconnection from ancestors), signified that he had forgotten his family history and his noble origins. They wanted to remind him to reconnect with his roots, to know what an incredible lineage he came from, and to dare to dream bigger and do bigger things instead of thinking and acting small. When he releases this blockage, he will not only create a more balanced and better life for himself but also resolve the core conflict in his marriage.

These two Reiki sessions helped both spouses re-examine their own issues and those of their partner. From there, they could choose to support each other and make personal changes for their own growth and for the well-being of their family. Additionally, the session for their child helped both parents recognize their child’s needs and support them.

In addition to this case, I have done Siam Reiki for several other couples with very positive results. Some single clients, after a Siam Reiki session and counseling, have quickly found very satisfying new partners.

I share this to encourage people with relationship problems to take a practical approach to resolving their issues. Siam Reiki is an extremely effective option for couples who both want to improve the quality of their relationship. And in cases where the relationship truly has run its course, it helps each person find peace and stability on their new journey.