SIAM REIKI FOR COUPLES

Emotional relationships are one of the most common and important topics in healing work. When practicing quantum hypnosis, I often encounter subjects (mostly women) who come seeking answers to questions like, “What were they and their partner/spouse in the past life, so they can decide what to do next in their current relationship, whether they should continue or break up?” Although I enjoy reading books by hypnosis authors, especially about beautiful love stories, I personally believe that the approach itself misses the point right from the start. We all have many past lives in many different forms, in various places, on Earth or beyond it, so we have likely “encountered” each other several times in past lives. We constantly swap roles: sometimes strangers, sometimes family, parents, siblings, spouses, friends, etc. In these past lives, we may have had joyful or complicated relationships, and yet each of us must learn our own lessons, along with shared lessons such as unconditional love, letting go of attachments, and so on. Similarly, in this current life, a harmonious relationship in the past life doesn’t guarantee that individuals won’t trigger their own fears when in a relationship, nor does it ensure that this current life couple will never face challenges. Likewise, a bad relationship in the past life reflects that, in that life, the people involved lacked love, but it doesn’t mean they will always be that way in this life. I always tell subjects to approach the present life with a realistic mindset. For example: What can I change in myself to improve my current relationship? Is there something about my partner that I haven’t seen clearly, so I can be more understanding and supportive, or realize that I have done everything I could, and I should let go? With this approach, whether the subject uses a healing method like hypnosis or a Tarot/Oracle reading session, it will truly bring healing results, rather than creating more entanglement. However, not all clients accept this, especially when they still look at things in the way that keeps them stuck. Hypnosis is an extremely effective tool when the subject is open, but if the subject comes with the mindset, “I want to learn about this, but it has to go my way (and I won’t accept it if it doesn’t),” more specifically, with a heavy victim mentality, it will just create another entanglement. Therefore, I am becoming more selective about my hypnosis clients, to save time for both them and myself.

Siam Reiki, as I’ve explained in many articles, provides a safer approach because it reveals issues in the present, thus preventing the subject’s mind from being drawn too far away. While past-life issues may exist during therapy, their likelihood is much lower compared to present-life issues. You know, it’s much easier to blame things we can’t see than to take responsibility for our own lives. It’s also much easier to blame others than to take responsibility ourselves. But there are also cases where people take too much responsibility for themselves, to the point where they can’t recognize a healthy boundary. Fortunately, a person’s energy clearly indicates their problems and how they are deviating from their own balance. This balance has no one-size-fits-all solution because each person is a unique version.

Here is a specific case where Siam Reiki therapy, combined with psychic/energy counseling, could help a couple. Since both subjects were far away, this was a remote Siam Reiki session.

This female subject came to me for hypnosis about her relationship with her husband. She felt trapped and was very eager to divorce him. Specifically, since she left her job to start her own business, her husband had always been worried that she might lose this or that, afraid of losing things, and his worries made her feel negative. Over time, after several years, she felt that he was demoralizing her and blocking her growth. She feared that if they divorced, the children would suffer, but if they continued to live together, she felt she was stagnating. I did a quick check via photos and saw that she had significant blockages in many of her chakras, so I suggested a Siam Reiki session. The result was surprising: from the “victim” position, the energy showed that she was actually the “perpetrator.” She was extremely picky and “very harsh with her words,” particularly toward her husband. She also had a high need for control – wanting everything to be exactly as she wished. This behavior was so extreme that I honestly believe it was a miracle her husband stayed with her and was patient. It’s rare for a man to tolerate such a woman and maintain family harmony. I can’t share further details, but the outcome was that she felt much better after the Siam Reiki session and scheduled additional treatments for both her husband and child.

The results for the husband were also quite interesting. His energy and blockages clearly showed that he was a family man: concerned about his parents, always thinking about what he could do better for his children, and in need of more love from his wife. From this, it’s clear that if she divorced him, it would be hard for her to find another man like him who is so patient. The session also revealed that he had many fears of loss – which negatively affected her. Notably, he was the subject of a Reiki session where the entire council of ancestors appeared to “protect” him. It’s not uncommon for one or two deceased family members to appear in a Reiki session. In some cases, they have already transcended, and they appear just to encourage and show concern for their descendants. In other cases, they haven’t transcended and appear because of their connection to the subject. In this husband’s case, there was a whole lineage of ancestors, appearing in succession. All of them had transcended, and their demeanor was very dignified and wise, showing they had accomplished extraordinary things. Their presence, combined with blockages in the first chakra – indicating no connection with his ancestors – meant that he had forgotten the history of his family, forgetting that he was born into a lineage that had done remarkable things. They wanted to remind him to reconnect with his roots, to realize his powerful origins, so that he could dare to dream big and aim high, rather than thinking small and acting small. This means that once he frees himself from this blockage, his life will become more balanced and better, and it will also resolve the conflicts in their marriage.

Both Reiki sessions helped the couple reflect on their own and each other’s issues, leading them to choose to support one another and change for personal growth and for the family. Additionally, the session for their child helped the parents recognize their child’s needs so they could better support the child.

In addition to this case, I’ve done Siam Reiki for several other couples, and the results have also been very promising. Some single people, after a Siam Reiki session and counseling, and by following the advice, quickly found a new, very satisfactory partner.

This article is shared to let everyone know that when facing difficulties in relationships, it’s essential to approach and handle the issues realistically. Doing Siam Reiki for couples is an incredibly effective option when both parties want to improve the quality of their relationship. And in cases where the relationship has truly run its course, each person will quickly stabilize mentally and move forward peacefully on a new journey.